Wednesday, May 23, 2018

"Everyday Gifts' given Pentecost Sunday, May 20


Several years ago I read an article about a man who had taken his teen-aged daughter to a crowded movie theatre. They had arrived early, and were sitting in their seats, engaging in a bit of father-daughter bonding, when a young man in his twenties stopped and stood in the aisle next to them. Apparently the lights in the theater had not yet been dimmed. So, it was fairly obvious to them that the young man was developmentally delayed.
After looking around, the young man noticed a group seated one row in front of where he was standing. An attractive young woman was seated there with a group of young people. Spotting the group, the young man called out.
"Hey, do you mind if I sit next to you?" No one said a word. The young girl hesitated, looked at her friends, and noticed that every eye in the theater was on them. Trapped by the awkwardness of the moment, she whispered,
"No, I don't mind." Not having heard her, the young man said,
"WHAT?" Obviously embarrassed, she whispered again,
"Uh, no,... I don't mind."
The young man jumped over the seats, plopped down next to her, and began talking and asking her questions in a loud voice.
"Are you married? You're very pretty, do you have a boyfriend?"
The man exchanged glances with his daughter, and knew that the same thought was going through both their minds. Probably it was the same thought that was going through the minds of just about everyone in that theater at that moment.
"Thank goodness, he didn't sit next to us."
They felt sorry for the embarrassed young girl. They felt sorry for this mentally challenged young man. But neither of them made a move to do anything about the situation. Apparently no one else there did so either.
Later, the man wrote, "I left the movie deeply disturbed. Why hadn't I helped that poor... young man? Why hadn't I invited him to sit next to me? Why didn't I strike up a conversation with him after the movie? In other words, why didn't I show that young man more love and compassion? To be more direct, why didn't I act more like a Christian? Why didn't I do what I know Jesus most certainly would have done? I couldn't. I just sat there, powerless to do anything."
"The Spirit you received was not one to enslave you to fear again; you received the Spirit of adoption...." writes Paul in the Book of Romans. Those of us who have met and accepted this Jesus as Our Lord have been touched by that Spirit of adoption. You and I have, through the gracious work of that Spirit, become God's children. Consequently, we have available to us, a source of magnificent power for the living of our lives as disciples of Jesus Christ.
"But you will receive power when the Holy Spirit comes to you and you will be my witnesses", says Jesus in Acts 1. You and I are called, and enabled to witness to the world-- by our words and our deeds-- to the reality and the grace of our God. We are witnesses and adopted children of the Living God.
And yet, how many of us would have had the spiritual power to publicly show some simple compassion and care to that mentally challenged young man in that movie theater that day? I hope that I would. I pray that I would. I’d like to think that I would. But, in all honesty, I can't say for sure that I would have done anything other than what everyone else in the theater did-- just sit there and feel sorry for everyone involved-- myself included.
How many times have you or I heard ministers, lay speakers, bishops, TV preachers, Sunday School teachers talk about the power of God? How many times have I preached it? How many times have we heard how the power of God can be experienced in answered prayers, in miraculous healings, in spiritual gifts? How many times?
And yet, how many times have you or I felt powerless to reach out? How many times in our lives have we been caught unaware and felt paralyzed, unable to offer a little Christian love, afraid to offer a little common human caring to a stranger in confusion, or need, or loneliness?
Maybe, just maybe, we're misunderstanding the power of the Holy Spirit. We've gotten the idea that the Spirit's power is solely reserved for big, showy, flashy miracles-- like converting thousands of people in a day, like speaking and praying in tongues and being understood, like performing miraculous healings, like preaching with an eloquence that fills our empty churches with people. We tend to think that the Spirit's power is reserved for the spectacular, instead of being revealed in the mundane.
Somehow or other, we've gotten the misconception that our God is more interested in the big things, instead of choosing to be present in the small, everyday things. We’ve come to think that God's power is limited to the few-- the especially holy or particularly blessed-- instead of being available for all believers. We have the mistaken idea that God's power is manifested in strength, instead of being revealed in weakness.
Too often, one of the reasons you and I don't really take the Holy Spirit, the power of God seriously, is because frankly, we don't think that we're candidates for it. We just can’t really believe that we have been adopted as real live sons and daughters of the Living God. At least, not in the fullest possible sense.
Sure, the power of God, or the Holy Spirit, or the charismatic gifts are available to us for little things-- like speaking in tongues, or preaching and healing. But can we believe that same power, that those spiritual gifts are also available to us for the big things? Like for instance:
The power to care for and reach out to someone in need—
even a stranger in a crowded theater,
The power to say no to television and movies that offend our values,
The power to choose inconvenience over self-indulgence,
The power to ask those I've wronged for forgiveness,
The power to forgive those who wrong me-- even if they never ask,
The power to read and study more, especially the Scriptures,
The power to humble myself, and honestly pray,
The power to stick it out in a situation that I may not like--
if I feel that I am supposed to be there,
The power to work on my relationships with others,
The power to work on myself,
The power to cut other people some slack,
The power to recognize all the slack that others cut for me,
The power to avoid starting an argument,
The power to make up after an argument,
The power to walk away from an argument,
The power to control my temper,
The power to control my tongue,
The power to accept and affirm and celebrate others often,
The power to accept myself—warts and shortcomings and all,
The power to admit my shortcomings and my failures,
The power to transcend my failures and sin,
The power to get over all my past failures, and get on with my life,
The power to accept and really believe that my sins are forgiven,
The power to accept responsibility for my actions,
The power to listen, rather than to judge,
The power to say “no” to the demands of job when they conflict
with the needs of my family,
The power to say “no” to those material things that require so much time that they keep me from spending time on what is truly important in my life,
The power to say “no” to idleness and meaningless activity,
The power to say “yes”-- to my family-- to my integrity-- to my ministry-- to my God,
The power to say "I love you" to my spouse and children,
The power to say "I love you" to other people-- and mean it,
The power to love, even when we don't like,
The power to live with not being liked,
The power to discern what is right and what is wrong,
The power to find courage to do what I am afraid to do,
when I know it is right,
The people to ignore “what people will say”— after all, they’re going to talk about you anyway,
The power to ask and know what Jesus would do,
The power to follow my Savior, wherever He leads me.

Well. I'll admit. It's not as glamorous or as spectacular a list as speaking in tongues, interpreting tongues, prophesying, healing, teaching, governing, and evangelizing-- which is one version of Paul’s several different lists of the so-called "spiritual gifts". I'll also admit that the power of God, or at least the gifts that I've listed make the power of God sound kind of everyday and wishy-washy. At least, compared to the "charisms" that Paul lists.
And I'll admit that living your life practicing the living out of these more simple, everyday gifts, won't get your mug on TV, preaching as a big-name evangelist or faith healer. And I'll admit, that this more mundane list isn't really found in the Bible. But on the other hand, Paul did say elsewhere that "the Realm of God is not a matter of talk, but of power."
Hmmmm. Do you suppose that Paul is suggesting that if you and I worked harder at practicing the power of God in our everyday lives and relationships that we might find ourselves to be more comfortable and less self-conscious and able to reach out in simple compassion to a needy stranger on the street-- or in the movie theater? Do you suppose that the Apostle is telling us that if we really begin trying to pray for and work on perfecting those mundane, small gifts of the Holy Spirit in our lives, we might be enabled to fill our empty churches by the simple power of your and my everyday witness in the world?
Do you suppose that Paul is telling us that if we were each to just make more of an effort to practice these unspectacular gifts of the Spirit of Adoption in our everyday-ness of our lives, that speaking in tongues, and miraculous healings, and prophecies would pale into insignificance in comparison to the "marvelous sight of the sons and daughters of God coming into their own"?
The gifts are there for us. The Spirit is there for us. We've already received the Spirit in fact. You and I need never fear or be embarrassed to reach out in compassion, or fear to witness, or share again. Paul says so.
"The Spirit you received was not one to enslave you to fear again... The very Spirit of God joins with our spirit to testify that we are God's children." Amen.



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